Dear Amy: I have a thoughtful, successful 38-year-old stepdaughter. We have a good relationship and enjoy each other’s company. I live abroad, so I only see her and her family once or twice a year.He is completely anti-social and barely acknowledges my presence.
Family members and friends have tried to understand his behavior: Is he “on the spectrum,” is it a cultural issue, , or is he just rude? You say that others have broached this issue with your stepdaughter, but it might be helpful if you spoke with her – or him – in order to make sure he is comfortable with you being a guest in their home. Ask for any suggestions for ways you might connect with him.
I highly recommend that you speak to a counselor about this. I think it might also be a good idea to talk more with your dentist about your experiences.You can assume this doctor victimized other patients, and it might help you – and others – if you report this crime, even after the perpetrator’s death.Dear Amy: “Passively Helpful Guy” wondered about offering to help people.It lets the person know you’re available and willing, without pouncing.