By Gary Wasserman March 24 at 9:30 AM My wife’s brother Rich died the last week in February. They were very close. Shortly after he passed, in the emergency room of a hospital in Washington state, his body came home. There it was wrapped in a Stewart tartan blanket and placed on a table in a window alcove facing Mount Baker.
By the 20th century, undertakers were elevated to a professional class of funeral directors, bodies were seen as a risk to public health and the false narrative spread that families no longer had the right to care for their own. The practice of dying at home and family caring for the dead remained common only in rural areas.
A “very kind” man, as Sharon put it, from the group took the body to the house in a van. He gave Sharon information on keeping it cold with packs of dry ice and instructions to replace them every 12 to 18 hours. Sharon and her daughter washed and clothed the body.For the next three days family and friends came by to see Rich. Some talked to him; one shared the beat of an ancient drum; some read poems.
Not everyone showed up — there were no solemn strangers in dark suits timing the starched formalities of yet another ceremony. Rich’s death was wrapped in the life that continued around it. Often there were kids playing, dogs wrestling, women cooking.
How about new homes complete with private morgues/mortuaries as standard. Why move one from his mansion to a scruffy overcrowded mortuary at death? We cannot continue to hide the fact that death is very much part of our lives.
Personally, I want to legalize aqua cremation here in Tennessee. It's less harsh on the environment (and all living in it) than fire cremation or embalming. It's a good way to have a good death after a good life, and generally less expensive too. Win Win!
If you're curious about returning to old traditions or green funerals, I highly recommend a youtube channel named Ask A Mortician. Shame on Washington for denying burial outside of a cemetery though! It's a great way to conserve nature.
My flower boy.🕵🏻♀️
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